Ridgell's Originals

 Churches/church leaders make decisions all the time.  Most everyone has an opinion on what decision is best.  And if we are honest, our way is the right way.  So how can I get everyone to vote/accept/agree to my way.

Here are four helpful hints to ensure you get your way.

Threaten.  Threaten to leave.  Or to resign.  Or to stop giving.  Use whatever threat you think will work.  Because almost immediately everyone will say "no don't do that" and pretty soon your way wins out.

Just hope no one calls your bluff.  Because the best way to stop this approach is to accept the resignation and not let them retract it.

Get angry.  But make it look like righteous indignation.  Old Testament prophet anger.  You know -- "opposing God", "tired of blocking progress", "just want your way", etc.  

Of course, if you are an elder just hope no one points out that elders are not to be quick tempered.  

Use language that can't be argued with:  "God told me."  "the Holy Spirit is leading me to...," "I am just thinking of my family, kids, those that have gone before, or those coming after." 

But watch out because someone else will point out everyone has family they want the best for.  Or someone may ask why God did not make it clear to them, or why the Holy Spirit did not lead them to that conclusion.  

Of course, just point out that they obviously are not spiritual enough to receive the clear leading.

Quote someone else.  Use some preacher or professor that agrees with you.  Even generic use of certain colleges or congregations may do it.

Just hope no one uses names that do not agree with your position.  

So these four ideas may help you get your way.

But you have to believe the end justifies the means.  And that God is happy if you use unholy methods to get your holy idea accepted.

And as long as you don't mind being a church bully.  Becaue these things above are absolutely signs and actions of a church bully. 

# posted by Steve @ 5:30 AM