Tuesday, August 18, 2020

 

Church and culture will always be at odds

 Church and culture do not mix.  Never have and never will.  And that makes it difficult and stressful to be a community of faith in our world.  Always has been.  Always will be.

Because we are different.  We have a different world view.  We have different -- and often competing -- agendas.  

The church has historically, and I think correctly, believed in unchanging truths.  God. Jesus.  Scripture.  These have been true, they are true, and they will be true.  Of course, the church reflects it's culture to some degree because that is the world in which we live.  But Scripture is clear about choosing God over the world we live in.  Clear about our real kingdom allegience.

Culture changes.  Take American culture the last 100 years and marriage.  Man and a woman.  Only.  For life.  Then same sex marriage.  Now Polyamory is on the way to full acceptance.  There have been cultures where it was acceptable to capture your wife from another tribe or village.  Or buy your wife.  Or have multiple wives.  The church has historically held to monogamous union between one man and one woman as the view seen in the Bible.  

The church has historically upheld the value of human life.  But culture has sometimes endorsed and approved slavery, genocide, and euthanasia.

Culture has always rewarded greed, ego, and lust. Not so among God's people.

So I think the church has three choices.

Embrace culture.  That will often mean teaching what the Bible does not.  It will mean taking political stands.  Supporting the current government powers.  And I have never heard of a church that will admit to this.  But it happens.  See Nazi Germany for one example.  

Accommodate culture.  Do not embrace culture but try to keep a foot in both church and culture.  You see this most often when churches do not overtly endorse the evil things in culture, but they stop teaching about them.  See many of the American churches today.

Or stand against culture.  I don't mean a culture war.  I am not even sure the job of the church is to reform culture.  After all, there has not been a Christian nation in 2000 years.  Even when it was overtly attempted.  See the Inquisition.

And I do not think our battle is against the people of our culture.  The church does want to save the people of this world.  And it is hard.  The church has often failed to live up to our calling.  Both as individuals and corporately.  And we never will get it right.  Because we are not perfect. 

And I think this is the only real choice. 

But we have to try.  And here is what will happen.  People will say bad things about us.  That we are unloving and judgmental.  But our lives will make them wonder.  And it will lead to persecution.  

Just like Jesus said.

So when you worry about what is happening to the culture you are living in... maybe it is just playing out exactly like it always has.

And one last piece of good news.  200 years from now someone may be communicating this exact same discussion.  Because unless Jesus returns, the church will still be here.  And so will culture.  One of them remains the same.  And one of them is ever changing.

Choose wisely.

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Tuesday, August 11, 2020

 

Does the Church of Christ have a leadership problem

 I read a lot of articles from preachers frustrated at the leadership model used by most Churches of Christ.  Almost everyone agrees it is an unworkable model.  Elders leading the church.  Volunteers.  Not theologically trained.  Telling professionals what to do.  

Preachers frustrated at having to convince elders to sign off on programs and decisions.  Then being evaluated/criticized for things over which you have no control.

Elders frustrated because they feel like they are not doing things at all the way the Bible talks about what elders do.  The Bible seems to point to shepherding as the main function of elders.  And teaching.  Being responsible that error is not taught.  But you don't do a lot of those things in our leadership model.  

A lot of really good men quit preaching.  Just can't take it any more.  A lot of really good men resign as elders.  Just can't take it any more.

I used to argue the way Scripture seems to talk about elders would work today in our culture.  

I am not so sure any more.

As long as our churches look like the American business model we cannot have a leadership structure like most churches do. It just doesn't work.  

If we are going to be heavily invested in buildings, a large ministerial staff, a fixed budget, and numerous programs -- then it is hard to see how our model can function.  These kind of things need a CEO that can hire his own staff and run the organization.  Elders should function like a board.  And many churches are moving to that model.  

But that sure doesn't seem like the early church model.  It just doesn't.

So here are a couple of questions we need to ask.

Is the American church model really working?  Are any churches really growing?  And I don't mean going from 200 to 250 while the church down the road goes from 200 to 150.  I don't see that as growth.

Maybe Covid will give us a chance to re-examine what church should look like.  What if we didn't just "leave the building" but actually rethought whether we need buildings?  And if so, what is their purpose?  How would it look to have 10 house churches under an eldership?  What if elders had the responsibility for teaching the Bible to their flock?  And the staff were all primarily evangelists?  

Do we still need a main/senior/lead minister to do all the preaching?  One thing we have all learned during this time is that there is a lot of really good teaching from a variety of preachers available.  Team preaching?

Or do we encourage smaller congregations of 50-100.  I used to buy in to the argument that the last thing most places need is another church.  So don't do church plants.  Now I wonder if we don't need a lot more church plants.  

But I do know trying to put a Acts leadership model on churches modeled after American business is not working.

And when this strange time is over, I don't think we will ever go back to what we were.  I don't think we can.

I am not the only one thinking about these things.  Much smarter people than I am are talking about it.  And there will be some churches/preachers/elders that will figure it out.

And I am optimistic that some of us will see a different model that may lead to explosive growth.  Real growth.  You know ... kind of like they saw in Acts.    

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Thursday, July 23, 2020

 

Thinking about placing membership... or not.

One thing this pandemic has done is make me think a lot about the whole concept of church membership.  

You know, the idea that we need to part of a distinct group of believers.  Working in their programs.  Sending them our contributions.  Attending there.  This is a thinking out loud blog.  Not giving answers because I am not sure I have any yet.  And I will even acknowledge that our personal situation may be really, really unique.  Or it may not be.  But here are some things that have made me wrestle with the whole membership/placing membership idea.  

I have listened to many preachers during the pandemic shut-down but the four I listen to the most are Rick, Richard, Chris, and Tommy.  They preach in Fort Worth, Plano, Abilene, and Fredericksburg.  

We are members of a congregation we haven't attended in over a year.  But I still do a lot of ministry with that church and many of its members. 

The church where we have attended most is not where we are members.   

Our contribution has gone to mission churches, individuals, medical bills, funeral expenses, and groceries for people all over.  

I have preached in every Church of Christ in Abilene I think.  If you count weddings and funerals, you can add several Baptist and Methodist churches.  

Our small group has been together over twenty years and we don't go to church together.

The men I consider my spiritual shepherds/elders go to least four or five churches in Abilene.  

When someone says church family, I think of people not congregations.

Our spiritual interactions/fellowship lately have been with people from Southern Hills, Oldham, Beltway, Highland, University, Remington Ridge, Hillcrest, and a few who aren't sure where they go.  Or they are looking.

I have people from at least nine churches in town who consider me one of their elders.  I know because they have told me when they call.  They call me for spiritual counsel or when in spiritual crisis. I think they are family.

Abilene is strange.  Lots of churches.  Lots of choices.  Lots of troop transfer.  Not as much sheep stealing as you would think.  In fact, I am not sure I know a church in town that actively seeks members from other churches.  But people sure move around.  Sometimes because the member changes.  Sometimes because the church changes.  

And before things shut down, I was doing a lot a preaching in places where all the churches together were few and far between.  Where a church of fifty was a big church.  And preaching in a couple of places where lots of churches are working together to reach people for Jesus.

And yes, I am aware of the differences -- sometimes major differences -- in how to approach the Bible.  I do think that matters. 

So I guess I am just wrestling with the whole concept of exclusive church/congregation membership.  

And of course, membership is not even a formal process in Scripture.  If you are a Christian, you are a member of the church.  Somehow you do worship together, serve each other, and make more disciples.  

So sorry if none of this makes sense.  I am just trying to figure it out in my own mind.  

And realizing that if God was not more clear about it, then maybe we/I have made too big a deal about it.  So I love my church family.  Wherever you are currently worshiping.  Let me know if I can ever help.     


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Tuesday, July 21, 2020

 

Four Things I Would Rethink about How We Do Church

In the midst of everything going on in our world, it is sometimes hard to think strategically and long-term.  But since nothing is ever going to be quite like it was, I also think this may be the best time to rethink some things about how we do church.  So here are three areas I think it might be wise to take a look.

But let me say one more thing first.  I am not advocating a "right" or "wrong" answer.  And different churches will do things in different ways.  And I do know some churches are doing amazing ministry even during this time.  Nor do I think I have all the answers.  I am thinking about these things and a couple of them are things I have been concerned about for a long time.  Some of them I am not even sure how I feel about them.

So...

Buildings.  Why do we have them?  Are they worth the resources expended on them?  What are the alternatives?  Multiple house churches under one eldership?  Is the cost/benefit ratio for buildings a wise use of God's resources?  Are there better alternatives to being able to meet together?  Our buildings are generally designed around the ability to deliver a thirty minute sermon.  Is that the most effective design?

Staff.  Preachers.  One thing this whole shut-down has done is let many of us hear lots of different preachers.  Is video here to stay?  Could preachers make more videos that are not congregation specific?  I started a YouTube channel (blatant ad here -- please subscribe) because I guess that is what traveling preachers do when they cannot travel.  I have found out these have been used for communion thoughts, discussion starters, and intros to house church worship.  Is there a way to continue this?  

Is it time to employ more elders?  With so many people struggling with addictions, depression, relationships... maybe it is time to ask some elders to resign their jobs and work for their flock.  How about evangelists?  Is this the time to support/hire more evangelists?  If God is opening doors to make disciples, shouldn't we be ready to go thru them?  

What about Youth Ministers, Children Ministers, Education Ministers?  Is it time to rethink these positions?  

What about programs?  Most churches are heavy on organized, structured programs for service, benevolence, spiritual growth.  We can't do many of those programs right now.  Is this a time to think more creatively about how to motivate, equip, and inspire our people to do more unstructured ministry.  More of see the need, meet the need personally.  Less admin and organization.  More doing.

Finally, what about budgets?  Most of our budgets are dominated by building and staff expense.  What happens if we empower our people not to give all their donations to our budget?  What if we turned them loose to give personally.  Buy groceries, pay a bill, fix a car, help on a funeral.  

Would it change everything if instead of dropping money into a plate (or in these times, drop it online), our people saw their money being dropped directly into people's lives?  

I do realize that our church culture is so set and ingrained in most of us that it would take a radical disruption to think outside the box like this.

Maybe the time is now.  

  

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